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	<description>fruit on the bottom, hope on top</description>
	<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 04:20:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Sometimes, Kids Are Awesome by Mocha</title>
		<link>http://coolbeansmama.wordpress.com/2008/06/20/sometimes-kids-are-awesome/#comment-2327</link>
		<dc:creator>Mocha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2008 22:43:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Which means if you ate him you're growing another tree inside you, right?

That's awfully precious.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Which means if you ate him you&#8217;re growing another tree inside you, right?</p>
<p>That&#8217;s awfully precious.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Sometimes, Kids Are Awesome by coolbeans</title>
		<link>http://coolbeansmama.wordpress.com/2008/06/20/sometimes-kids-are-awesome/#comment-2326</link>
		<dc:creator>coolbeans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 05:04:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, I did. He is scrumptious.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, I did. He is scrumptious.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Sometimes, Kids Are Awesome by Melanie at Beanpaste</title>
		<link>http://coolbeansmama.wordpress.com/2008/06/20/sometimes-kids-are-awesome/#comment-2325</link>
		<dc:creator>Melanie at Beanpaste</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2008 23:08:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awwwww.  And then, surely, you ate him.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awwwww.  And then, surely, you ate him.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Overcoming Social Anxiety: A Prescription-Free Approach by mspennylane</title>
		<link>http://coolbeansmama.wordpress.com/2008/06/09/overcoming-social-anxiety-a-prescription-free-approach/#comment-2324</link>
		<dc:creator>mspennylane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jun 2008 10:03:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have social anxiety related to fear of blushing (which I have only written about briefly on my blog here: http://marmaladeskiesblog.wordpress.com/2008/05/25/erythrophobia/)

It's great if you have the ability to sort out your thoughts in that way. I think I am learning too. I often used to obsess a lot of the time about things that were 100% out of my control and also pretty unlikely to even happen. Now I am usually able to distract myself from them. 

And what you say about needing unease to keep our egos in check is a very good point. Also might help to keep the unnecessary things at bay if we can always look at it positively... though we know we probably can't ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have social anxiety related to fear of blushing (which I have only written about briefly on my blog here: <a href="http://marmaladeskiesblog.wordpress.com/2008/05/25/erythrophobia/" rel="nofollow">http://marmaladeskiesblog.wordpress.com/2008/05/25/erythrophobia/</a>)</p>
<p>It&#8217;s great if you have the ability to sort out your thoughts in that way. I think I am learning too. I often used to obsess a lot of the time about things that were 100% out of my control and also pretty unlikely to even happen. Now I am usually able to distract myself from them. </p>
<p>And what you say about needing unease to keep our egos in check is a very good point. Also might help to keep the unnecessary things at bay if we can always look at it positively&#8230; though we know we probably can&#8217;t <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>Comment on My kid hates me but I have cute shoes! by Mae</title>
		<link>http://coolbeansmama.wordpress.com/2008/06/11/my-kid-hates-me-but-i-have-cute-shoes/#comment-2316</link>
		<dc:creator>Mae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 20:55:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Those shoes are more than cute enough to shield against all the hatred in the world!!  Stopped in via Blog Mad!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Those shoes are more than cute enough to shield against all the hatred in the world!!  Stopped in via Blog Mad!</p>
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		<title>Comment on My kid hates me but I have cute shoes! by coolbeans</title>
		<link>http://coolbeansmama.wordpress.com/2008/06/11/my-kid-hates-me-but-i-have-cute-shoes/#comment-2315</link>
		<dc:creator>coolbeans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Jun 2008 01:16:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>mammaloves - I hear you. This kid and I are having mother-daughter drama. Already. UGH.

Nikki - Thank you! Yay for shoes!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>mammaloves - I hear you. This kid and I are having mother-daughter drama. Already. UGH.</p>
<p>Nikki - Thank you! Yay for shoes!</p>
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		<title>Comment on My kid hates me but I have cute shoes! by Nikki</title>
		<link>http://coolbeansmama.wordpress.com/2008/06/11/my-kid-hates-me-but-i-have-cute-shoes/#comment-2314</link>
		<dc:creator>Nikki</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jun 2008 23:46:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>They even look more kick-ass in person..</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>They even look more kick-ass in person..</p>
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		<title>Comment on My kid hates me but I have cute shoes! by mammaloves</title>
		<link>http://coolbeansmama.wordpress.com/2008/06/11/my-kid-hates-me-but-i-have-cute-shoes/#comment-2310</link>
		<dc:creator>mammaloves</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 20:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh I am so not above putting hatred children in their room when they're like that.  I find they usually fall asleep.

Now I want chips and salsa.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh I am so not above putting hatred children in their room when they&#8217;re like that.  I find they usually fall asleep.</p>
<p>Now I want chips and salsa.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Obsessing Obsessively: Social Anxiety by Overcoming Social Anxiety: A Prescription-Free Approach &#171; cool beans</title>
		<link>http://coolbeansmama.wordpress.com/2007/05/07/obsessing-obsessively-social-anxiety/#comment-2307</link>
		<dc:creator>Overcoming Social Anxiety: A Prescription-Free Approach &#171; cool beans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 17:06:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] June 9, 2008 Overcoming Social Anxiety: A Prescription-Free&#160;Approach Posted by coolbeans under A Week In The Life, Health &#124; Tags: mental health, social anxiety, Tupperware &#124; &#160;  About a year ago I wrote the following about socializing with other women: After a social encounter, I replay the conversation and scene over and over and over in my head and ... [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] June 9, 2008 Overcoming Social Anxiety: A Prescription-Free&nbsp;Approach Posted by coolbeans under A Week In The Life, Health | Tags: mental health, social anxiety, Tupperware | &nbsp;  About a year ago I wrote the following about socializing with other women: After a social encounter, I replay the conversation and scene over and over and over in my head and &#8230; [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Celebrities, Utah Style by Loralee</title>
		<link>http://coolbeansmama.wordpress.com/2008/06/05/celebrities-utah-style/#comment-2306</link>
		<dc:creator>Loralee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2008 06:23:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am still snorting at the memory of some of them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am still snorting at the memory of some of them.</p>
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